Goodbye 2011......On To The Next!

Whew, this year went by so fast! I still can't believe it's almost over. So much has happened this year, a lot of needles, a lot of tests, many doctor visits, a lot of dildo cams, being under anesthesia twice, all that and nothing to show for it except bills. But I remain steadfast in my quest to motherhood and will continue to stand firm in my faith.

So, there's a new year ahead of us. In an effort to not jinx myself by saying that I'm making a few 'resolutions' for the new year (because we all know that we rarely stick to those), I have a few 'goals' for the new year:

1. Exercise, exercise, exercise.....when has this ever not been number one on the list. Seriously though, I'm a few pounds overweight so I need to do something, esp. if by some miracle I am to get pregnant this year.

2. Be more active in my blogging....in my defense, this was my first time trying the blogging thing, but I do agree that it did kind of suck a bit. I'm sure it was all over the place, which is pretty much how it will probably continue to be, just with a bit more reporting on happenings. I've got different things going on, so I think it's good to touch on everything vs. having a niche, even though I think that's how you're supposed to do this thing. But hey, my blog, my rules! Moving on......

3. Work on decorating the house.....we've been here for a little over three years now and there's still so much to do: painting, ripping out that ugly linoleum and tiling the kitchen, you name it. So, I'm gonna battle that this year.

4. Organize, organize, organize....everything! I think I'm going on an all out war with clutter this year, I want to organize every cupboard, closet, drawer, you name it. I've found a few inspirational sites this year and I'm def gonna put those to use in 2012.

5. Cook and bake more....I think I did pretty good with this this year, compared to what I've ever done in the past. But I want to try even more recipes, and hopefully I'll be able to share some here.

6. Date night....Mr. M and I had a few of these this year, but not nearly enough. So, I want to make it a priority that this happens at least twice a month.

7. Get my butt to work by 9:30am....that 10-10:30am thing that I was doing this year is not good. Shoot, by that time many others are already almost halfway through their day. So, this is my aim and I sure plan to stick to it.

8. Be a better god-mother....Lord knows I've been a terrible one thus far, and she's a good kid. So, I'm gonna make an effort to be more involved in her life.

I'm sure I'll add to this list as time goes on, but I also don't want to make it too long and unrealistic and not reach those goals, so I guess we'll go see how 2012 goes.

In the famous words of Jim Jones- 'Pop Champagne', and to all........

…. Happy New Year

 Oh, and don't drink and drive! See you in 2012 :)

The Real Housewives of Atlanta

I don’t know what it is about this show, but I have to admit that it’s one of my guilty pleasures. I don’t know if it’s because it’s produced in my city, or if it’s because it’s centered on black women, but I love it. Mr. M refuses to watch it with me because he feels like he'll be losing brain cells. I’ve been a fan since Season 1, and I continue to be, even though the 4th season premiere episode had me thinking ‘what the hell’, and for the first time I too felt like I had lost a couple brain cells after watching it.

However, here’s my synopsis on the ‘housewives’:

Kandi: I think it’s great that you continue to do well even after Xscape. I think you’re a great mother to Riley and I think you and your Mom have a great relationship. But please don’t forget that she is still your mother, so there are boundaries. Know when to leave Mom at home. The porn industry is a multi-million dollar industry, so I think you’ll have much success with your sex toy line. Keep doing you, and continue to ‘try’ to see the good in others.

Kim: Thank God for Kroy! You needed some structure in your life. I’m glad you finally came to the realization that a relationship with a married man has no future. I’m glad your girls finally have a positive role model in their lives. Oh, and please get your wig together. I know you’re pregnant, but that doesn’t mean that you can't keep it together.

Nene:  You have confirmed for me that money and fame does change a person. You were my favorite for the past 3 Seasons, but I’ve been finding myself rolling my eyes one too many times when you’re in a scene. You are very rich! Yeah, ok. Thank God for Celebrity Apprentice. Try taking a piece of the humble pie before God takes your blessings away. I know people mature and people grow, but please don’t forget your past and where you’ve been. You weren’t always in this place, so quit turning up your nose at folks. There’s an old saying in Jamaica, ‘the humblest calf sucks the most milk’.

Phaedra: Or as they say, Phaedra ‘Highclass’ Parks. That alias is not very fitting in my opinion. Phaedra ‘Extra’ Parks is more like it. Now let me be positive for a minute, when you are in your element, I am actually a bit convinced that you’re a great lawyer. Outside of that, oh lawd! Can we say over-the-top! Just too much Phaedra! I don’t even want to revisit that circus of a baby shower you had, still *shaking my head* And please stop talking about folks and their ‘donkey booty’, and stop showing yours off. I’m sure Apollo won’t be too happy about that when he watches these episodes. And stop using the South to justify your ridiculousness. I've been here long enough to claim it, so I'm a bit offended by some of your comments.

Sheree: I must say, you've kinda grown on me. I wasn't a fan at all in the first two seasons, but I loved you last season. This season you and Nene are feuding and I'm seeing a bit of that ugly side again. You seem very bothered by the fact that you and Nene are no longer friends, and your way of trying to mask that is to do the high school thing with Phaedra, grow up! But, you're still much better than you were in the past, so I'll take it. On a more serious note, your ex-husband is a douche! Why are you still protecting this fool who won't own up to his responsibilities? I think this is the first time that we've seen you vulnerable. Take that man to court and make him pay child support, no questions.

Cynthia: I like you. You're calm and you seem like a very good friend. I was laughing at you when you had Nene sign that 'friendship contract' though. Really? But I like that you love and support your husband and love your family just as much. But please, you are 44, your family does not need to know the financial happenings in your life and they shouldn't have a vote on it. I understand that they love you and they want the best for you, but you are too grown to have them tell you what to do and what not to do with your money. Make your own decisions. Your husband may not have it all, but he's hustling, and you have to respect him for that. Oh, public speaking, not really your thing, sorry :( You're a good model though :)

This season promises to be very entertaining. I can't wait to watch again next Sunday.

Update (Long Overdue)